This week, I’ve been posting a series of extracts from the blog I wrote while in DC as part of the Washington Ireland Program for Service and Leadership in 2007.
Today, I’ve got a re-cap of our “Elephant in the room” conversation. The Washington Ireland Program was established to bring together young leaders from both sides of the political divide in Northern Ireland, hoping to inculcate peace and reconciliation. Traditionally each year, the interns arrange an evening to discuss the Northern Ireland troubles and their views on the future. This is an account of our discussion.
(From 4/7/08)
Last night was for me, without doubt, the best night here. Weirdly I guess, given the simplicity of the evening and the endlessly wonderful array of events we’re treated to.
JC Jnr arranged for us interns to gather and discuss how we feel about Ireland, Northern Ireland and everything in between. It was definitely the elephant in the room, since this group was formed back in Belfast months ago now. In every casual conversation, group discussions and debates, it was there- the topic we avoided. We couldn’t avoid it any longer.
So, last night we got pitzas, hired the board room and just talked it out. Everyone gave a three-minute contribution of their views, background and position. The tension in the room was palpable. The emotion evident in people’s voices and faces. Every word was respected, but it’s such an emotional topic to discuss particularly in front of a group. The usually rowdy gang of us, sat in respectful silence as people shared stories, hopes and fears. It was powerful, moving stuff.
There was no controversy for it’s own sake, just pure opinions that differed immensely. Chatting to a fellow WIPer afterwards, we said that it was a pity that the whole of Ireland hadn’t seen what had just happened. We got to the root of the issue. Behind the overly-optimistic press reports that the war is over. Behind the academic doctrines and historical analysis of who was right, when and why. Behind the propaganda and rhetoric of conflict used by both sides. It was simple.
A gang of young people who drink together and work together talking about the single greatest challenge their country has ever faced and how it has impacted their lives.
I’m a news junkie. I follow these things intently. But last night was the first time I felt that I truly understood it. I learned a lot. I learned just how wide the divide is and how long it will persist. I learned that peace is not a place in history, but a process and I grew to appreciate the fragility of that peace. The old questions arose. That of a United Ireland, that of mixed identities, the labels of terrorism, that those in power can re-write the history books, can change the rules. That both sides have had to swallow a lot. Not only the political figure heads, but the people of Northern Ireland – the people who just want decent schools and hospitals and a safe place to lay their head at night. I saw how hard it is to live in a power-sharing arrangement and have someone you so passionately disagree with make decisions in your name and with your taxes. I realize that compromise is the only answer. But that fact does not negate how difficult it is to achieve it, on an emotional level as much as any other.
So, thanks to my fellow WIPers for last night. I’m just sorry that the rest of the world didn’t see the magic in that room. It was a necessary chat and I think, we’re stronger as a team for having done it.





